Marika Malaea

faithful marauder + fake royal

Misfit Thanksgiving #3

with 10 comments


I kind of love and hate the word skullfucker.  It’s the word ‘motherfucker’ dressed up goth for Halloween, a typical ‘shock jock phrase’; a word so unsanitary, Howard Stern would make slow, sweet love to it. I imagine Quentin Tarantino lisping it out in yet another terrible attempt at acting, spitting his way through the first S and steamrolling his way down to the over-pronounced -er. But it’s also a powerful word, a brilliant marriage of the creepy, the inappropriate, and the very specific. It’s in that category of words you will never say in front of your parents, no matter how cool they are – and would you really want to have a conversation with your folks where that word even needed to appear? Even so, I’ve never used it in conversation or in my writing; my balls aren’t that big, and I’ve never really needed it. Until today, that is.  Because that is what Chef Emily did to me:  she seriously skull-fucked me with her food. SHE TOTALLY SKULL-FUCKED US ALL.

Chef Em works for one of my favorite local food monopolies, Chow Foods, as Head Bizzle at their popular Capitol Hill location, Coastal Kitchen. The Griz and I went there last week for brunch, and their new seasonal menu features delectable foodstuffs from Brittany, France – MEANING CHEESE, PEOPLE. I am often confounded by the friends that walk around the planet like semi-normal people, but who actually possess superhuman abilities which rock my entire life. Emily is one of those people with her talented cheffing skills. They are good friends to have, in lieu of having actual abilities. Sunken apple-rum-cinnamon-sugar cupcakes were my tiny contribution, and I heard they were good; Martha Stewart’s robotic tears were violently obtained for the recipe, so I should certainly hope so.

Back to my fucking skull. Sarabear and Chef Em, who have been trouble friends for years, decided to throw a Thanksgiving party for their food-loving peeps. I imagine they approached the whole evening like this: “Hey Em, we should throw a party where you MIND-HUMP EVERYONE and give them FOOD ORGASMS and make them DIE FROM HAPPINESS!” Emily’s cheerful response would have been: “And bacon!”

Look, there’s no way on Earth I can ever explain this dinner to you. I can tell you there was a rich and creamy butternut squash soup that was so heavy, I had to raise an army from the dead to assist my spoon in besting its’ surface (and the spoon prevailed, but just barely). Into that buttery goodness went the home-toasted pine nuts tossed in unknown spices and herbs, as well as crispy, salted sage leaves that melted in my mouth. I can also paint a picture of the roasted Brussels sprouts, loaded with onions and spicy hot bacon and the purest crack cocaine around. There was also roasted chicken, and bread made out of Jesus Christ himself (chewy!), and scalloped potatoes made with Manchego, an amazing Spanish cheese. Also inhaled was my all-time favorite European butter, which comes in a tiny wooden basket – the kind of butter you find at Whole Foods in the I OWN A YACHT section (right next to the ‘100% Organic, 39% of the Time’ product line). See, these words look good on paper, and the dinner sounds nice, but there’s no way they can ever live up to the actual food.

If you haven’t done any drugs in your entire life – and for what reason, I could never imagine (perhaps you are trapped in a nunnery with no windows or people or any way out) – then go out and do some celebrity-endorsed heroin now. You want quality celebs, though: River Phoenix=good, Ryan Seacrest=gay. That first-time experience would barely compare to the food Chef Em created. It was better than your first time with heroin.  Our food was wrapped with invisible strands of HEAVEN, then baked in a sauce called RIGHTEOUSNESS. And just as I’d imagined in my loveliest dreams: Heaven tasted like bacon.

I once heard the phrase ‘horses eating horses,’ and never thought I’d find a mightier phrase to rival it – but ‘Emily skull-fucked me with her food’ has a certain appeal, a je ne sais quois that’s quite unexplainable. As a word, it’s at once intimate, fun, fucked-up, and weird – just like any typical holiday with the fam. I’m thankful to be a part of the Blue House Family, the nicest group of misfits I know.

If any of you Seattlites want to get brain-laid by the little lady, check out the Coastal Kitchen on Capitol Hill. Chef Em’s the name and bacon’s her game. She and Sarabear are the the nitwits to my shiz.


Written by sn0tteh

November 26, 2008 at 5:49 AM

Posted in Uncategorized

10 Responses

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  1. I hate you.

    Not really.

    But kinda.

    I do not want to read anymore tales of Thanksgiving from you missy!


    November 26, 2008 at 9:57 AM

  2. I am currently packing for my trip to Portland where the Esq’s auntie’s culinary talents may rival Chef Em’s in a very big way–if you’ve reached this message in error, please hang up and try again.

    NOW you hate me.

    Snotty McSnotterson

    November 26, 2008 at 4:19 PM

  3. i’m sooo happy to have “skull-fucked” you and the other 12 people on Monday night. I’d be happy to make it a weekly thing….just as long as the vegans bring their own damn food cause it all tastes better when cooked in the delightful fat of swine. xoxo


    November 26, 2008 at 6:07 PM

  4. That’s basically the best review of all time, so take a victory lap, missy.

    Snotty McSnotterson

    November 26, 2008 at 6:25 PM

  5. I think you captured the spirit of the season: amazing food as the centerpiece of a gathering of people, thereby making them thankful for being able to partake of such succulent bounty!

    And I’m deeply jealous! Sounds delish!


    November 26, 2008 at 7:39 PM

  6. You make it sound so Dickensian.

    Snotty McSnotterson

    November 26, 2008 at 8:05 PM

  7. You mean a home-cooked, skullfucking-good dinner ISN’T Dickensian?


    November 26, 2008 at 8:30 PM

  8. ‘Tis! But not nearly as British.

    Snotty McSnotterson

    November 26, 2008 at 9:21 PM

  9. sad this is why dinner with us got cancelled………….


    November 28, 2008 at 5:22 PM

  10. How is this why dinner got canceled? We had this dinner on Monday, Jenny.

    Snotty McSnotterson

    November 28, 2008 at 11:27 PM

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